1 00:00:02,937 --> 00:00:05,170 You okay? 2 00:00:05,238 --> 00:00:08,206 Kevin, are you all right? 3 00:00:09,844 --> 00:00:11,092 I'm fine. 4 00:00:11,178 --> 00:00:12,777 You don't seem fine. 5 00:00:12,846 --> 00:00:14,296 I was just having a dream. 6 00:00:14,382 --> 00:00:16,560 Seemed more like a nightmare. 7 00:00:16,584 --> 00:00:17,732 Really, I'm fine. 8 00:00:17,818 --> 00:00:20,352 Okay. 9 00:00:20,421 --> 00:00:21,820 What? 10 00:00:21,889 --> 00:00:24,690 Well, I mean, since you're up. 11 00:00:24,759 --> 00:00:25,690 Steak again? 12 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,994 It's the middle of the night. 13 00:00:29,063 --> 00:00:30,662 How about steak and eggs? 14 00:00:30,731 --> 00:00:32,447 Sounds delicious. 15 00:00:48,048 --> 00:00:49,681 ♪ 7th Heaven ♪ 16 00:00:49,749 --> 00:00:52,817 ♪ When I see their happy faces ♪ 17 00:00:52,886 --> 00:00:56,187 ♪ Smiling back at me ♪ 18 00:00:56,256 --> 00:00:57,973 ♪ 7th Heaven ♪ 19 00:00:58,042 --> 00:01:00,642 ♪ I know there's no greater feeling ♪ 20 00:01:00,710 --> 00:01:03,795 ♪ Than the love of family ♪ 21 00:01:03,864 --> 00:01:08,283 ♪ Where can you go ♪ 22 00:01:08,352 --> 00:01:12,087 ♪ When the world don't treat you right? ♪ 23 00:01:12,155 --> 00:01:16,708 ♪ The answer is home ♪ 24 00:01:16,776 --> 00:01:20,661 ♪ That's the one place that you'll find ♪ 25 00:01:20,730 --> 00:01:23,282 ♪ 7th Heaven ♪ 26 00:01:23,350 --> 00:01:27,453 ♪ Mmm, 7th Heaven ♪ 27 00:01:28,956 --> 00:01:32,190 ♪ 7th Heaven. ♪ 28 00:01:59,820 --> 00:02:01,586 ♪ ♪ 29 00:02:20,474 --> 00:02:22,407 ♪ ♪ 30 00:02:40,126 --> 00:02:41,604 Hey, I was just gonna call for you, 31 00:02:41,628 --> 00:02:42,944 your breakfast is almost ready. 32 00:02:44,064 --> 00:02:45,280 Hmm, no, thanks. 33 00:02:45,366 --> 00:02:47,511 Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. 34 00:02:47,535 --> 00:02:50,151 Well, just the same, I like to keep it light. 35 00:02:50,237 --> 00:02:54,122 Juice, juice is good and, and good for you. 36 00:02:54,208 --> 00:02:55,474 Dad, I'm going. 37 00:02:55,543 --> 00:02:57,003 I know you're going; that's why I wanted 38 00:02:57,027 --> 00:02:58,488 to send you off with a hearty breakfast. 39 00:02:58,512 --> 00:02:59,927 Would you stop?! 40 00:02:59,997 --> 00:03:02,730 Dad, I don't need a hearty breakfast to go see a therapist. 41 00:03:02,799 --> 00:03:04,743 And by the way, I said I'd talk to a therapist, 42 00:03:04,767 --> 00:03:06,079 I didn't say that after I talked to a therapist 43 00:03:06,103 --> 00:03:07,319 I would see things your way. 44 00:03:07,388 --> 00:03:09,738 I'm just happy to see you making an effort 45 00:03:09,806 --> 00:03:10,939 to see things my way. 46 00:03:11,007 --> 00:03:11,939 Dad. 47 00:03:12,025 --> 00:03:14,242 Just kidding. Kind of. 48 00:03:14,311 --> 00:03:17,312 Anyway, when you're ready, your mother and I would 49 00:03:17,381 --> 00:03:19,009 love to sit down and talk to you. 50 00:03:19,033 --> 00:03:21,073 Yeah, you've mentioned that a few times. 51 00:03:21,735 --> 00:03:23,651 Just remember, all therapy, 52 00:03:23,721 --> 00:03:25,820 including my therapy, is confidential. 53 00:03:25,906 --> 00:03:29,324 I would never want to know what you discuss in therapy, 54 00:03:29,393 --> 00:03:31,509 unless, of course, you want me to know. 55 00:03:31,579 --> 00:03:32,579 I don't. 56 00:03:33,564 --> 00:03:36,131 So, how's Georgia? 57 00:03:36,217 --> 00:03:39,318 I don't know. 58 00:03:39,386 --> 00:03:41,219 We, uh, we broke up. 59 00:03:41,288 --> 00:03:43,972 Well, I'm sorry, I guess. 60 00:03:44,058 --> 00:03:46,908 Okay, I'm not having this conversation with you right now. 61 00:03:58,355 --> 00:03:59,821 Let's talk. 62 00:03:59,907 --> 00:04:03,875 Something tells me I'm gonna need coffee for this. 63 00:04:03,944 --> 00:04:05,944 So, I met this guy in detention. 64 00:04:06,012 --> 00:04:07,946 He's really nice, but everyone thinks 65 00:04:08,014 --> 00:04:10,482 he's a bad guy just because he was in detention. 66 00:04:10,551 --> 00:04:13,111 So, maybe you should be friends with him 67 00:04:13,153 --> 00:04:15,197 to let people know that he's not a bad guy, 68 00:04:15,221 --> 00:04:16,501 if he's not a bad guy. 69 00:04:16,557 --> 00:04:18,990 Well, you realize everyone thinks I'm a bad girl 70 00:04:19,059 --> 00:04:20,992 because I was in detention. 71 00:04:21,061 --> 00:04:25,246 And because Matt, Mary, Lucy and Simon were in school before me. 72 00:04:25,332 --> 00:04:28,100 I feel for you, but I don't get your point. 73 00:04:28,168 --> 00:04:30,418 Well, I haven't quite gotten around to my point. 74 00:04:30,504 --> 00:04:32,584 Which is? I think I'm ready to date. 75 00:04:36,577 --> 00:04:38,893 So, it's okay if I go out with Harry? 76 00:04:38,962 --> 00:04:40,294 That's his name, Harry. 77 00:04:42,016 --> 00:04:43,176 Just think about it, okay? 78 00:04:46,503 --> 00:04:47,619 Uh... 79 00:04:47,688 --> 00:04:49,154 No, thanks. 80 00:04:49,222 --> 00:04:50,633 I'm gonna get my lunch at school. 81 00:04:50,657 --> 00:04:52,774 That's what Harry does. Oh. 82 00:04:52,860 --> 00:04:55,693 So, tell Martin I'll wait for him out in the car. 83 00:05:05,522 --> 00:05:07,054 I got the boys dressed today. 84 00:05:07,141 --> 00:05:08,206 I can tell. 85 00:05:08,275 --> 00:05:09,702 We're going to be baseball players 86 00:05:09,726 --> 00:05:11,126 when we grow up. 87 00:05:11,194 --> 00:05:12,327 Or preachers. 88 00:05:12,395 --> 00:05:13,445 Oh. 89 00:05:13,513 --> 00:05:15,597 Or baseball players who are preachers. 90 00:05:15,683 --> 00:05:18,132 Or preachers who are baseball players. 91 00:05:18,218 --> 00:05:19,951 You can be anything you want. 92 00:05:20,020 --> 00:05:22,286 Then we want to be baseball players. 93 00:05:22,355 --> 00:05:23,635 Not preachers. 94 00:05:27,177 --> 00:05:28,177 No, thanks. 95 00:05:29,229 --> 00:05:30,912 We want school food today. 96 00:05:30,980 --> 00:05:32,313 Mom gave us money. 97 00:05:32,399 --> 00:05:35,267 Oh, I see. Well, I thought she didn't make lunches, 98 00:05:35,335 --> 00:05:37,435 she forgot, so, I made the lunches. 99 00:05:37,504 --> 00:05:39,554 That was wrong thinking. 100 00:05:39,623 --> 00:05:41,422 You were incorrect. 101 00:05:41,492 --> 00:05:42,924 Bye. 102 00:05:46,847 --> 00:05:49,114 Are you okay, Reverend Camden? 103 00:05:49,183 --> 00:05:51,161 Rough morning. So, you heard about Harry? 104 00:05:51,185 --> 00:05:53,305 Do you know Ruthie's friend from detention? 105 00:05:53,354 --> 00:05:55,754 No, but I've seen the two of them in the hall together. 106 00:05:55,823 --> 00:05:58,189 And I don't like what I see. What do you see? 107 00:05:58,258 --> 00:06:00,203 I see a kid I don't think is good enough for Ruthie. 108 00:06:00,227 --> 00:06:02,372 And if you don't mind, I'm gonna keep an eye on the situation. 109 00:06:02,396 --> 00:06:05,379 Well, if, if you want. 110 00:06:05,448 --> 00:06:06,397 Thanks anyway. 111 00:06:06,466 --> 00:06:07,632 School food for you, too? 112 00:06:07,701 --> 00:06:09,045 I didn't know you made the lunches. 113 00:06:09,069 --> 00:06:10,167 Well, I did. 114 00:06:10,237 --> 00:06:11,397 It's not that your lunches 115 00:06:11,421 --> 00:06:13,232 aren't as good as Mrs. Camden's, but... 116 00:06:13,256 --> 00:06:15,890 Okay, your lunches aren't as good as Mrs. Camden's. 117 00:06:15,959 --> 00:06:16,959 Bye. 118 00:06:30,190 --> 00:06:31,190 What? 119 00:06:31,225 --> 00:06:32,390 What what? 120 00:06:32,459 --> 00:06:33,975 Why are you staring at me? 121 00:06:34,061 --> 00:06:35,710 Was I staring? 122 00:06:35,796 --> 00:06:38,113 Yes. Is there something wrong? 123 00:06:38,198 --> 00:06:41,099 No, everything's great. 124 00:06:41,168 --> 00:06:42,299 How is school going? 125 00:06:42,369 --> 00:06:44,385 School's great. 126 00:06:44,454 --> 00:06:47,956 You're gonna graduate like you planned? 127 00:06:48,024 --> 00:06:49,507 Far as I know. Why? 128 00:06:49,576 --> 00:06:51,076 Just asking. 129 00:06:51,144 --> 00:06:52,355 How's work going at the church? 130 00:06:52,379 --> 00:06:55,563 I'm just getting started really, but it's fine. 131 00:06:55,631 --> 00:06:57,310 I'm working on my first official duty, 132 00:06:57,334 --> 00:06:59,095 putting the teen class together. 133 00:06:59,119 --> 00:07:00,651 The abstinence thing? 134 00:07:00,721 --> 00:07:02,948 Not exactly, if all you had to do was tell teens 135 00:07:02,972 --> 00:07:04,750 not to have sex, then we wouldn't need 136 00:07:04,774 --> 00:07:06,035 the class down at the church. 137 00:07:06,059 --> 00:07:07,436 You need to tell them more than once. 138 00:07:07,460 --> 00:07:09,420 They may not hear it the first time. 139 00:07:10,063 --> 00:07:12,547 I don't know, I'm just trying to be helpful. 140 00:07:12,633 --> 00:07:13,648 Okay. 141 00:07:13,734 --> 00:07:16,050 Speaking of kids, 142 00:07:16,119 --> 00:07:18,286 how many are you thinking you want to have? 143 00:07:18,355 --> 00:07:20,688 One, two, ten? 144 00:07:20,774 --> 00:07:21,990 Ten? 145 00:07:22,075 --> 00:07:23,386 You don't want to have ten, do you? 146 00:07:23,410 --> 00:07:24,742 Why don't we just see 147 00:07:24,811 --> 00:07:26,356 how things go with the first one, 148 00:07:26,380 --> 00:07:27,757 and then we can take it from there? 149 00:07:27,781 --> 00:07:29,730 Good idea. 150 00:07:29,817 --> 00:07:31,510 Are you sure you should be going to work today? 151 00:07:31,534 --> 00:07:32,979 You didn't sleep well last night, 152 00:07:33,003 --> 00:07:34,283 and you're acting kind of nutty. 153 00:07:34,321 --> 00:07:36,688 I'll be fine and I know you 154 00:07:36,756 --> 00:07:38,635 need the apartment to work on your... work. 155 00:07:38,659 --> 00:07:41,543 I love how you always support me in everything I do. 156 00:07:41,628 --> 00:07:43,210 I'm your husband. 157 00:07:43,297 --> 00:07:44,345 Yes, you are. 158 00:07:46,133 --> 00:07:47,348 Now, get out. 159 00:07:50,771 --> 00:07:53,154 Did you see Sam and David? 160 00:07:53,223 --> 00:07:55,056 Oh, didn't they look cute? 161 00:07:55,125 --> 00:07:57,058 Yeah, cute. 162 00:07:58,862 --> 00:08:00,795 What's wrong? 163 00:08:03,550 --> 00:08:05,317 Ruthie wants to date. 164 00:08:05,385 --> 00:08:07,385 Harry. 165 00:08:07,453 --> 00:08:09,454 He sounds like a nice guy. 166 00:08:09,523 --> 00:08:12,090 Did she tell you where she met Harry? 167 00:08:12,159 --> 00:08:14,069 Just remember that Ruthie met Harry in detention 168 00:08:14,093 --> 00:08:15,939 because she herself was in detention. 169 00:08:15,963 --> 00:08:19,364 Yeah, but some kids who are in detention are there for a reason 170 00:08:19,433 --> 00:08:21,044 and I don't want them dating my daughter 171 00:08:21,068 --> 00:08:22,450 and isn't she too young to date? 172 00:08:22,536 --> 00:08:24,619 Oh, Lucy was 13 when she started dating. 173 00:08:24,687 --> 00:08:26,154 Ruthie is gonna be 15 this year. 174 00:08:26,223 --> 00:08:27,322 She's growing up. 175 00:08:27,391 --> 00:08:28,785 Whose side are you on? Ruthie's. 176 00:08:28,809 --> 00:08:31,125 Traitor. 177 00:08:31,194 --> 00:08:32,474 Have you spoken to Simon? 178 00:08:32,513 --> 00:08:34,963 I know you did. 179 00:08:35,031 --> 00:08:37,982 Oh, don't ruin this therapy thing, please. 180 00:08:38,051 --> 00:08:39,401 I'm not ruining anything. 181 00:08:39,469 --> 00:08:43,355 I just... I just made him breakfast, which he didn't eat. 182 00:08:43,423 --> 00:08:46,274 Simon has agreed to go and talk to a therapist. 183 00:08:46,342 --> 00:08:47,876 That's enough for right now. 184 00:08:47,944 --> 00:08:50,104 He'll talk to us when he's ready to talk to us. 185 00:08:50,163 --> 00:08:52,408 Yeah, and if he's never ready to talk to us? 186 00:08:52,432 --> 00:08:54,043 Well, then, I guess we'll just have to accept that. 187 00:08:54,067 --> 00:08:56,301 Simon has to solve his own problems. 188 00:08:56,369 --> 00:08:58,609 All we can do is be there if and when he needs us. 189 00:08:58,672 --> 00:09:00,383 Do you actually believe anything you're saying? 190 00:09:00,407 --> 00:09:04,325 Not yet, but maybe if I say it enough times, I will. 191 00:09:10,717 --> 00:09:13,551 Look, I'll let you know when I want a kiss, okay? 192 00:09:13,620 --> 00:09:15,740 No, I'll let you know when she wants a kiss. 193 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:17,589 Martin. 194 00:09:17,657 --> 00:09:18,818 Look, I suggest you take your lips 195 00:09:18,842 --> 00:09:19,791 and keep moving down the hall. 196 00:09:19,860 --> 00:09:21,108 I'm Harry. 197 00:09:21,177 --> 00:09:23,444 You must be Martin. Baseball player, right? 198 00:09:23,530 --> 00:09:24,908 I know who you are. Just move along. 199 00:09:24,932 --> 00:09:26,814 I'll see you later, Ruthie. 200 00:09:28,068 --> 00:09:30,035 Don't bet on it. 201 00:09:32,239 --> 00:09:33,688 We need to talk. 202 00:09:33,774 --> 00:09:35,894 I'll let you know when I want to talk, okay? 203 00:09:35,925 --> 00:09:37,042 It was just a kiss. 204 00:09:37,110 --> 00:09:38,542 A kiss you didn't want, right? 205 00:09:38,612 --> 00:09:40,495 Yeah and I told Harry that. 206 00:09:40,564 --> 00:09:41,796 I don't need a bodyguard. 207 00:09:41,864 --> 00:09:43,047 I can take care of myself. 208 00:09:43,116 --> 00:09:44,466 You don't even know him. 209 00:09:44,534 --> 00:09:46,296 You met him in detention; Doesn't that tell you anything? 210 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,803 Yeah, it tells me that he's a nice guy who made a mistake 211 00:09:48,871 --> 00:09:51,472 that landed him in detention, and you know what? 212 00:09:51,541 --> 00:09:52,951 I'm a nice girl that made a mistake 213 00:09:52,975 --> 00:09:54,709 that landed me in detention. 214 00:09:54,778 --> 00:09:57,512 So, if you're gonna judge him based on the detention gig, 215 00:09:57,580 --> 00:10:00,281 then you'll just have to judge me the same way. 216 00:10:10,627 --> 00:10:12,259 Well, you've lost some weight. 217 00:10:12,328 --> 00:10:15,240 Well, I'm back in the single world. 218 00:10:15,264 --> 00:10:17,493 So, what's going on with you? Just visiting? 219 00:10:17,517 --> 00:10:21,219 Yeah, kind of, and... I don't have a problem. 220 00:10:21,288 --> 00:10:23,721 Okay. 221 00:10:23,790 --> 00:10:25,710 Yeah, I'm only here for my parents. 222 00:10:27,444 --> 00:10:29,777 They-they threatened to stop paying for my school 223 00:10:29,846 --> 00:10:30,779 if I didn't come to see you. 224 00:10:30,864 --> 00:10:32,090 Oh, interesting. 225 00:10:32,114 --> 00:10:33,910 You're not here to borrow money, are you? 226 00:10:33,934 --> 00:10:35,550 No, no. 227 00:10:35,619 --> 00:10:36,785 But, I mean, I really... 228 00:10:36,853 --> 00:10:38,893 I really don't have a reason to be here. 229 00:10:40,774 --> 00:10:43,174 I'm seeing this girl... uh, this woman... 230 00:10:43,243 --> 00:10:45,309 Georgia, and um... 231 00:10:45,378 --> 00:10:49,247 we're close, but when my mom and dad found out 232 00:10:49,315 --> 00:10:52,150 how close Georgia and I were... 233 00:10:52,218 --> 00:10:53,785 they got upset. 234 00:10:53,854 --> 00:10:55,698 That you're having sex. Right, right. 235 00:10:55,722 --> 00:10:57,667 I mean, but I don't have a problem with that. 236 00:10:57,691 --> 00:10:59,691 I mean, it's my mom and dad's problem. 237 00:11:02,529 --> 00:11:04,696 So... 238 00:11:04,764 --> 00:11:06,497 I came, we talked. 239 00:11:06,566 --> 00:11:07,481 Can I go? 240 00:11:07,567 --> 00:11:09,000 If you want, sure. 241 00:11:09,069 --> 00:11:11,514 Look, Simon, I'm here to help, 242 00:11:11,538 --> 00:11:13,432 but apparently you don't need any help... good for you. 243 00:11:13,456 --> 00:11:15,801 I usually take today off, so this actually works fine for me. 244 00:11:15,825 --> 00:11:18,106 And good luck to you on finding your college money. 245 00:11:18,578 --> 00:11:19,738 Perfect. Hey, thanks, Doc. 246 00:11:19,779 --> 00:11:21,879 Take care, okay? 247 00:11:24,868 --> 00:11:26,400 I thought you left for work. 248 00:11:26,470 --> 00:11:28,164 I'm working from home today. 249 00:11:28,188 --> 00:11:30,748 I wanted to talk to you about Sunday. 250 00:11:33,193 --> 00:11:34,704 I think you should give the sermon. 251 00:11:34,728 --> 00:11:35,776 Me? 252 00:11:35,862 --> 00:11:37,123 I was going to introduce you 253 00:11:37,147 --> 00:11:38,958 to the congregation as the new associate pastor 254 00:11:38,982 --> 00:11:41,649 and tell them about your course, and then I was thinking... 255 00:11:41,718 --> 00:11:42,917 well, it's your course. 256 00:11:42,985 --> 00:11:44,302 You should tell everyone. 257 00:11:44,371 --> 00:11:45,581 As long as you're up there, 258 00:11:45,605 --> 00:11:47,050 why not give the sermon, too? 259 00:11:47,074 --> 00:11:48,284 I could use a break. 260 00:11:48,308 --> 00:11:50,586 The congregation could use a break. 261 00:11:50,610 --> 00:11:54,028 And I... I know how much you want to dive in, so... 262 00:11:54,114 --> 00:11:55,446 Really? 263 00:11:55,515 --> 00:11:56,531 Wait. 264 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,233 Is this... is this too much... 265 00:11:59,302 --> 00:12:01,002 or too fast? 266 00:12:01,088 --> 00:12:02,515 The class, the sermon, the new job? 267 00:12:02,539 --> 00:12:04,321 No. I can handle it. 268 00:12:04,391 --> 00:12:05,657 I'm sure you can. 269 00:12:08,929 --> 00:12:10,039 But if you need any help... 270 00:12:10,063 --> 00:12:11,412 I can handle it. 271 00:12:25,778 --> 00:12:26,895 Hello. 272 00:12:26,980 --> 00:12:29,447 I brought over some literature and pamphlets 273 00:12:29,516 --> 00:12:31,182 for Lucy's new class. 274 00:12:31,250 --> 00:12:32,884 Simon told me about it, 275 00:12:32,953 --> 00:12:35,787 and I think it's great that you're trying to stop 276 00:12:35,856 --> 00:12:38,422 the mass exodus of teens from your church. 277 00:12:38,492 --> 00:12:42,043 So, will there be a whole series or just 278 00:12:42,129 --> 00:12:44,378 the one class that tells everyone not to have sex? 279 00:12:45,915 --> 00:12:49,016 You-you're welcome to come to church on Sunday 280 00:12:49,085 --> 00:12:51,029 and find out the details yourself. 281 00:12:51,053 --> 00:12:52,898 Lucy is going to be giving the sermon, 282 00:12:52,922 --> 00:12:55,773 and she'll be talking about the class. 283 00:12:55,842 --> 00:12:57,025 Thanks. 284 00:12:57,093 --> 00:12:58,726 Maybe I'll go with Simon. 285 00:13:00,113 --> 00:13:02,513 Is Simon around? 286 00:13:04,017 --> 00:13:05,699 Is there something wrong? 287 00:13:05,786 --> 00:13:08,953 I thought you and Simon broke up last week. 288 00:13:09,022 --> 00:13:11,388 Who told you we broke up? Simon. 289 00:13:12,826 --> 00:13:14,906 Oh, well, you must have misunderstood him. 290 00:13:14,961 --> 00:13:16,978 Well, yeah, I must have. 291 00:13:36,966 --> 00:13:38,266 Are you okay? 292 00:13:38,351 --> 00:13:40,835 Just saw Ruthie drive by in a convertible. 293 00:13:40,921 --> 00:13:41,921 With...? 294 00:13:41,955 --> 00:13:43,337 With some boy I don't know. 295 00:13:43,423 --> 00:13:45,072 Harry. 296 00:13:45,158 --> 00:13:46,736 I... I don't know what Harry looks like. 297 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:48,192 Tall, blond and no good. 298 00:13:48,261 --> 00:13:49,827 Well, I don't know about the last part, 299 00:13:49,896 --> 00:13:52,730 but, uh, this kid was tall and blond. 300 00:13:52,799 --> 00:13:55,399 I thought you said you were going to keep any eye on her. 301 00:13:55,468 --> 00:13:56,468 I was. 302 00:13:56,503 --> 00:13:57,746 Oh, well, if you were keeping an eye 303 00:13:57,770 --> 00:13:59,370 on her, how did she end up in a car 304 00:13:59,438 --> 00:14:00,817 with some tall, blond kid I don't know? 305 00:14:00,841 --> 00:14:02,852 She said she was riding home with a friend. 306 00:14:02,876 --> 00:14:04,420 She never said her friend was Harry. 307 00:14:06,513 --> 00:14:07,578 What? 308 00:14:07,647 --> 00:14:08,847 I'm new at this. 309 00:14:12,385 --> 00:14:13,796 Was that session that we had earlier... 310 00:14:13,820 --> 00:14:15,385 was that supposed to be helpful to me? 311 00:14:15,455 --> 00:14:17,538 Oh, you said you didn't need my help. 312 00:14:17,624 --> 00:14:19,202 No, I said I didn't have a problem. 313 00:14:19,226 --> 00:14:20,686 Right, and if you don't have a problem, 314 00:14:20,710 --> 00:14:21,871 then you don't need my help. 315 00:14:21,895 --> 00:14:23,855 So, you think that I have a problem. 316 00:14:24,881 --> 00:14:26,121 It doesn't matter what I think. 317 00:14:27,617 --> 00:14:29,250 Lots of kids have sex. 318 00:14:29,336 --> 00:14:30,417 Yeah, so I've heard. 319 00:14:30,503 --> 00:14:32,620 I know what you're thinking. 320 00:14:32,689 --> 00:14:34,889 You're thinking that the problem 321 00:14:34,958 --> 00:14:37,358 that I say I don't have that you think that I have 322 00:14:37,426 --> 00:14:40,495 has something to do with the accident I had last summer. 323 00:14:40,563 --> 00:14:41,962 Well, it doesn't. 324 00:14:43,250 --> 00:14:45,250 I mean, how could my having sex 325 00:14:45,318 --> 00:14:46,984 possibly have anything to do 326 00:14:47,053 --> 00:14:49,454 with me accidentally killing someone, hmm? 327 00:14:49,522 --> 00:14:51,722 I don't even think about that accident anymore. 328 00:14:53,193 --> 00:14:55,459 So, maybe I-I think about it sometimes, but, like, 329 00:14:55,528 --> 00:14:57,794 it doesn't upset me, okay? 330 00:14:57,864 --> 00:14:59,029 You sure about that? 331 00:14:59,098 --> 00:15:01,009 Because you're talking about the accident now, 332 00:15:01,033 --> 00:15:02,966 and you seem kind of upset. 333 00:15:05,655 --> 00:15:07,655 I have the rest of the afternoon free. 334 00:15:28,060 --> 00:15:29,643 How long have I been asleep? 335 00:15:29,729 --> 00:15:31,278 I don't know... I just got here. 336 00:15:31,364 --> 00:15:32,725 I can't sleep... I've got so much to do. 337 00:15:32,749 --> 00:15:35,315 Are those chocolate chip cookies? 338 00:15:35,402 --> 00:15:37,012 Your mother just baked those for you. 339 00:15:37,036 --> 00:15:39,937 Thought you might be hungry, so I brought them up. 340 00:15:41,741 --> 00:15:44,292 What? Cookies... right. 341 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,238 You're here because you think I need help 342 00:15:46,262 --> 00:15:47,578 with my sermon and my class. 343 00:15:47,647 --> 00:15:49,713 That's not true. Mm-hmm. 344 00:15:49,783 --> 00:15:50,981 But since I'm here... 345 00:15:51,051 --> 00:15:52,666 I told you, I can handle it. 346 00:15:52,735 --> 00:15:54,051 I've got it all under control. 347 00:16:05,415 --> 00:16:06,459 Hi. 348 00:16:06,483 --> 00:16:08,949 Hello. 349 00:16:09,018 --> 00:16:10,129 Where's Mom? 350 00:16:10,153 --> 00:16:11,685 She's picking up Sam and David. 351 00:16:11,771 --> 00:16:13,237 They're still at school? 352 00:16:13,306 --> 00:16:15,300 Well, they had a playdate after school. 353 00:16:15,324 --> 00:16:17,958 Apparently, you're not the only member of the family 354 00:16:18,027 --> 00:16:19,209 who's making new friends. 355 00:16:20,313 --> 00:16:21,313 Mm, you're not 356 00:16:21,348 --> 00:16:22,959 going anywhere... We need to talk. 357 00:16:22,983 --> 00:16:24,231 About...? 358 00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:27,101 You in a car with a boy I don't know. 359 00:16:27,187 --> 00:16:28,953 Harry... I told you about him. 360 00:16:29,022 --> 00:16:30,270 Yes, you did, 361 00:16:30,339 --> 00:16:33,307 uh, and I don't remember giving you permission 362 00:16:33,376 --> 00:16:36,360 to date Harry or anyone else yet. 363 00:16:38,431 --> 00:16:40,364 Don't even try it. 364 00:16:42,435 --> 00:16:43,867 Hi, uh... 365 00:16:43,937 --> 00:16:45,737 Ruthie left this in my car. 366 00:16:48,875 --> 00:16:50,858 I'm Harry. Well, hello, Harry. 367 00:16:50,944 --> 00:16:53,627 How do you do that? Do what? 368 00:16:53,713 --> 00:16:57,598 Sound friendly and unfriendly at the same time. 369 00:16:57,684 --> 00:17:00,100 It's one of the many skills I have developed over the years 370 00:17:00,170 --> 00:17:02,130 being the father of three daughters. 371 00:17:05,358 --> 00:17:07,791 Why don't you come in, Harry, so we can talk? 372 00:17:07,861 --> 00:17:09,710 There it is again. 373 00:17:09,778 --> 00:17:12,546 Friendly, yet unfriendly. 374 00:17:12,614 --> 00:17:14,632 We can talk in the dining room. 375 00:17:14,701 --> 00:17:16,266 Why can't we talk here? 376 00:17:16,336 --> 00:17:17,536 I want to talk to you alone. 377 00:17:21,725 --> 00:17:22,823 Is this good or bad? 378 00:17:22,909 --> 00:17:24,125 Good luck. 379 00:17:26,395 --> 00:17:29,063 Hey, while you're busy interrogating my friend, 380 00:17:29,149 --> 00:17:30,269 what am I supposed to do? 381 00:17:31,684 --> 00:17:33,083 Take these up to Lucy. 382 00:17:33,152 --> 00:17:35,653 Uh, she needs to keep up her strength while she works. 383 00:17:35,722 --> 00:17:37,722 I took some earlier, but you know how it is. 384 00:17:37,790 --> 00:17:38,989 She's eating for two now. 385 00:17:39,059 --> 00:17:40,508 Don't kid yourself, Dad. 386 00:17:40,576 --> 00:17:43,794 Lucy's eating for a family of five with two dogs. 387 00:17:48,701 --> 00:17:49,950 Okay. 388 00:17:50,036 --> 00:17:51,530 What are you in detention for? 389 00:17:51,554 --> 00:17:52,837 Oh, no chitchat? 390 00:17:52,906 --> 00:17:54,488 No, no. What did you do? 391 00:17:54,574 --> 00:17:57,274 Uh, I parked my car in a teacher's spot. 392 00:17:59,112 --> 00:18:02,562 After some of my friends and I moved the teacher's car. 393 00:18:03,950 --> 00:18:06,517 And then, we forgot to tell her where we moved her car, 394 00:18:06,586 --> 00:18:09,787 and it was... it was kind of funny actually. 395 00:18:09,856 --> 00:18:11,605 Funny... how? 396 00:18:11,691 --> 00:18:13,340 It was the first day of school. 397 00:18:13,409 --> 00:18:16,210 It was just a stupid old-fashioned prank, 398 00:18:16,279 --> 00:18:19,480 made easier, of course, by today's smaller cars. 399 00:18:20,700 --> 00:18:23,468 Mrs. Butler drives a Mini Cooper. 400 00:18:23,536 --> 00:18:25,486 Mm. 401 00:18:25,572 --> 00:18:27,555 I know it was wrong. 402 00:18:27,623 --> 00:18:30,524 It was funny, but... 403 00:18:30,593 --> 00:18:31,593 it was wrong. 404 00:18:31,644 --> 00:18:33,110 So, when you and your friends 405 00:18:33,179 --> 00:18:35,979 were moving Mrs. Butler's car, you... 406 00:18:36,048 --> 00:18:37,330 you knew it was wrong? 407 00:18:37,417 --> 00:18:40,484 Well, it kind of hit me later... 408 00:18:40,553 --> 00:18:42,018 in detention. 409 00:18:42,088 --> 00:18:43,638 How old are you? Sixteen. 410 00:18:43,723 --> 00:18:44,966 So, that was your car, 411 00:18:44,990 --> 00:18:46,936 the one you were driving my daughter around in? 412 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:48,375 Actually, it's... 413 00:18:48,444 --> 00:18:49,609 it's a friend's. 414 00:18:49,678 --> 00:18:51,045 I borrowed it. 415 00:18:51,113 --> 00:18:53,931 I wanted to give Ruthie a ride home, so I needed a car. 416 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,535 Borrowed, as in the owner of the car knows you borrowed it 417 00:18:57,604 --> 00:18:59,337 or doesn't know you borrowed it? 418 00:18:59,405 --> 00:19:00,504 I'm not a car thief. 419 00:19:00,573 --> 00:19:02,933 Actually, you're an admitted car thief. 420 00:19:03,743 --> 00:19:05,593 More of a prankster, don't you think? 421 00:19:05,678 --> 00:19:07,277 Uh... 422 00:19:07,347 --> 00:19:10,665 Listen, um, I really like Ruthie. 423 00:19:10,750 --> 00:19:12,933 So do I, which is why I'm not comfortable 424 00:19:13,001 --> 00:19:15,753 with the idea of you two... dating. 425 00:19:16,939 --> 00:19:18,850 Well, would it make a difference, sir, 426 00:19:18,874 --> 00:19:21,492 if I told you I was under the care of social services? 427 00:19:23,096 --> 00:19:25,929 I'm living in a county facility. 428 00:19:25,998 --> 00:19:27,898 So, you can see... 429 00:19:27,967 --> 00:19:29,887 I need a laugh every now and then. 430 00:19:31,971 --> 00:19:34,338 It would also be nice to have a girlfriend, too. 431 00:19:38,211 --> 00:19:41,062 So, which way are you going to go? 432 00:19:43,683 --> 00:19:45,266 Your sermon... 433 00:19:45,334 --> 00:19:47,112 your class for teens at church. 434 00:19:47,136 --> 00:19:48,697 Which way are you going to go? 435 00:19:48,721 --> 00:19:51,906 I'm not sure I'm comfortable talking to you about this. 436 00:19:51,991 --> 00:19:53,307 But I'm a teen. 437 00:19:53,376 --> 00:19:54,675 A teen girl. 438 00:19:54,743 --> 00:19:57,461 Isn't that who you want to talk to, to reach? 439 00:19:57,530 --> 00:19:59,296 Yeah, but you're my sister. 440 00:19:59,365 --> 00:20:00,398 It's different. 441 00:20:00,466 --> 00:20:03,133 Hey, I'm going to be 15 in a few months, 442 00:20:03,202 --> 00:20:05,102 and according to this pamphlet, 443 00:20:05,171 --> 00:20:07,104 I'm way behind the national curve. 444 00:20:07,173 --> 00:20:09,133 I can't talk to you about this, okay? 445 00:20:09,175 --> 00:20:10,886 Well, you're going to have to get over that 446 00:20:10,910 --> 00:20:13,221 if you're going to address the whole congregation on Sunday. 447 00:20:13,245 --> 00:20:15,612 I won't be the only teen girl in the audience. 448 00:20:15,682 --> 00:20:17,314 Why are you here? 449 00:20:17,383 --> 00:20:19,984 Dad's interrogating my new boyfriend, Harry. 450 00:20:20,052 --> 00:20:21,085 He's cute. 451 00:20:21,153 --> 00:20:22,153 I really like him. 452 00:20:25,658 --> 00:20:27,235 We were at our new friend's house. 453 00:20:27,259 --> 00:20:29,009 Oh... boy or girl? 454 00:20:29,095 --> 00:20:30,321 We don't like girls. 455 00:20:30,345 --> 00:20:31,278 Ew. 456 00:20:31,364 --> 00:20:33,314 Good boys. 457 00:20:40,740 --> 00:20:42,689 I'm not sure about Harry. 458 00:20:42,775 --> 00:20:44,236 Why, because he was in detention? 459 00:20:44,260 --> 00:20:45,492 Ruthie was in detention. 460 00:20:45,561 --> 00:20:47,361 We all make mistakes. Yeah, but 461 00:20:47,447 --> 00:20:49,728 I don't want to allow them to date and then realize 462 00:20:49,765 --> 00:20:51,594 we've made a mistake. It will be okay. 463 00:20:51,618 --> 00:20:53,696 Did you know that Simon and Georgia are still dating? 464 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:54,768 No. 465 00:20:54,854 --> 00:20:56,220 Simon... 466 00:20:56,288 --> 00:20:58,489 looked me in the eye this morning and lied. 467 00:20:58,558 --> 00:20:59,790 He told me they broke up. 468 00:21:01,227 --> 00:21:03,610 What? Oh, maybe that's our fault. 469 00:21:03,696 --> 00:21:06,075 Come again. Do you think he lied to us about Georgia 470 00:21:06,099 --> 00:21:07,847 because he wanted to lie 471 00:21:07,916 --> 00:21:11,001 or because he doesn't feel he can tell us the truth? 472 00:21:12,105 --> 00:21:13,587 Simon needs to feel free 473 00:21:13,655 --> 00:21:15,089 to tell us anything, 474 00:21:15,157 --> 00:21:18,758 and it is our job to make him feel comfortable enough 475 00:21:18,827 --> 00:21:20,527 to do just that. 476 00:21:20,613 --> 00:21:22,946 You're really working on this new attitude, aren't you? 477 00:21:23,015 --> 00:21:24,295 One of us has to. 478 00:21:24,350 --> 00:21:25,266 Well, I'm glad it's you. 479 00:21:25,334 --> 00:21:27,367 I-I'm just not quite ready. 480 00:21:29,588 --> 00:21:33,206 So, is it fun? 481 00:21:33,275 --> 00:21:35,208 Being with Georgia? 482 00:21:38,681 --> 00:21:40,614 Yeah, sure. 483 00:21:40,683 --> 00:21:43,483 And do you feel happy about the relationship? 484 00:21:46,121 --> 00:21:49,356 Do you love her? 485 00:21:49,425 --> 00:21:51,025 Not exactly. 486 00:21:51,093 --> 00:21:53,861 So you don't love her? 487 00:21:53,930 --> 00:21:55,930 You don't have to be in love to have sex. 488 00:21:55,998 --> 00:21:59,733 Ah, well, to have a healthy sexual relationship 489 00:21:59,802 --> 00:22:03,604 where both parties feel safe and free to be intimate, 490 00:22:03,673 --> 00:22:05,940 yes, you do. 491 00:22:06,008 --> 00:22:08,170 Ah, let's talk about something else. 492 00:22:08,194 --> 00:22:10,677 Not the accident. No, not the accident, 493 00:22:10,746 --> 00:22:13,079 not Georgia. 494 00:22:13,149 --> 00:22:15,081 Let's talk about school 495 00:22:15,151 --> 00:22:18,068 and how you found yourself on disciplinary probation. 496 00:22:18,137 --> 00:22:21,338 I missed a couple of classes. 497 00:22:21,407 --> 00:22:22,772 I mean, I took all the tests. 498 00:22:22,841 --> 00:22:24,074 I got straight "A" s. 499 00:22:24,143 --> 00:22:26,977 So when you didn't go to class, what did you do? 500 00:22:27,046 --> 00:22:29,997 Just... I hung out with Georgia. 501 00:22:30,065 --> 00:22:32,566 You know, we did things and... 502 00:22:32,651 --> 00:22:34,734 Sometimes class was boring? 503 00:22:34,820 --> 00:22:37,121 Yeah, I mean, yeah, sometimes I was bored, you know. 504 00:22:37,189 --> 00:22:40,624 And did you find your mind wandering a bit 505 00:22:40,693 --> 00:22:42,326 when you were bored? 506 00:22:42,395 --> 00:22:43,943 Yeah. 507 00:22:44,029 --> 00:22:47,431 And when your mind wandered, where did it go? 508 00:22:47,500 --> 00:22:50,935 I just wanted to be... 509 00:22:51,003 --> 00:22:53,003 with someone who didn't make me think all the time. 510 00:22:53,072 --> 00:22:54,154 You know? 511 00:22:55,608 --> 00:22:57,641 And when, um, I was with Georgia 512 00:22:57,710 --> 00:22:59,610 I di... I didn't have to think. 513 00:22:59,678 --> 00:23:02,596 So you threw yourself into the relationship with Georgia 514 00:23:02,664 --> 00:23:04,893 so you could silence your inner voice? 515 00:23:04,917 --> 00:23:08,001 And what was that inner voice saying to you? 516 00:23:09,088 --> 00:23:10,198 It's okay. 517 00:23:10,222 --> 00:23:11,633 Whatever you say in here stays in here. 518 00:23:11,657 --> 00:23:13,268 This is just between you and me. 519 00:23:13,292 --> 00:23:16,426 I guess my inner voice was saying... 520 00:23:18,264 --> 00:23:21,165 I'm going to Hell anyway for killing a guy, 521 00:23:21,234 --> 00:23:22,866 so I might as well have sex. 522 00:23:24,603 --> 00:23:28,488 I killed someone. 523 00:23:28,558 --> 00:23:30,678 I committed the greatest sin that there is. 524 00:23:32,211 --> 00:23:33,910 I took a life away, you know. 525 00:23:33,979 --> 00:23:36,680 I mean, yeah, it was an accident, 526 00:23:36,748 --> 00:23:39,082 but somebody's dead. 527 00:23:41,487 --> 00:23:44,004 So it doesn't matter what I do anymore. 528 00:23:44,073 --> 00:23:46,473 You know, I mean, what does it matter if I have sex? 529 00:23:48,327 --> 00:23:51,996 If you were me and you could be with... 530 00:23:54,867 --> 00:23:57,034 a beautiful woman... 531 00:24:00,106 --> 00:24:02,807 or spend every day and night having those kind of thoughts, 532 00:24:02,875 --> 00:24:04,275 you know, what would you choose? 533 00:24:04,343 --> 00:24:06,893 Yeah, yeah, you know, 534 00:24:06,979 --> 00:24:09,930 I had a sexual relationship with Georgia 535 00:24:09,998 --> 00:24:13,250 so I could forget that I killed someone. 536 00:24:14,753 --> 00:24:16,820 Because I thought that I was no good. 537 00:24:18,290 --> 00:24:19,322 Wow. 538 00:24:22,361 --> 00:24:23,861 Yeah, I did. 539 00:24:23,929 --> 00:24:27,164 I did, didn't I? 540 00:24:27,233 --> 00:24:30,134 Sorry, I just have never said any of this out loud before. 541 00:24:36,275 --> 00:24:38,475 I'm insane. 542 00:24:38,544 --> 00:24:40,627 I'm insane, aren't I? 543 00:24:40,713 --> 00:24:44,614 Oh, I can assure you you are not insane. 544 00:24:58,864 --> 00:25:01,565 Okay, don't help me, 545 00:25:01,634 --> 00:25:05,202 but maybe just point me in the right direction. 546 00:25:05,270 --> 00:25:07,716 I'm lost; I, I don't know where to start. 547 00:25:07,740 --> 00:25:09,355 Just look in the mirror, Luce. 548 00:25:10,843 --> 00:25:12,092 Just look in the mirror. 549 00:25:12,177 --> 00:25:14,911 Just look in the mirror? 550 00:25:35,718 --> 00:25:36,845 We need to talk. 551 00:25:36,869 --> 00:25:38,251 That sounds serious. 552 00:25:38,337 --> 00:25:40,120 It is serious. 553 00:25:40,205 --> 00:25:41,965 You're breaking up with me again, aren't you? 554 00:25:42,041 --> 00:25:43,657 You broke up with me. 555 00:25:43,742 --> 00:25:47,911 Oh, right. 556 00:25:47,979 --> 00:25:49,145 Are you breaking up with me? 557 00:25:52,217 --> 00:25:55,002 Because your parents are upset about our being together? 558 00:25:55,087 --> 00:25:56,436 No. 559 00:25:56,505 --> 00:26:00,073 Because I'm upset about our being together. 560 00:26:02,227 --> 00:26:04,773 Look, I shouldn't have gotten back together with you 561 00:26:04,797 --> 00:26:06,207 after I broke up with Cecilia, 562 00:26:06,231 --> 00:26:09,332 and... I shouldn't have gotten together with you at all 563 00:26:09,401 --> 00:26:11,668 when we were at school. 564 00:26:11,737 --> 00:26:15,005 I wasn't ready to be with myself, 565 00:26:15,074 --> 00:26:18,408 let alone someone else. 566 00:26:18,476 --> 00:26:19,854 I'm really sorry about that. 567 00:26:19,878 --> 00:26:21,961 So you're still in love with Cecilia? 568 00:26:22,047 --> 00:26:26,133 No, no, this has nothing to do with Cecilia. 569 00:26:26,202 --> 00:26:29,336 This has to do with me, 570 00:26:29,405 --> 00:26:32,072 and I don't want to hurt you when I say this, 571 00:26:32,141 --> 00:26:35,826 but I... I don't think I'm in love with you. 572 00:26:35,894 --> 00:26:37,778 That's okay. 573 00:26:37,846 --> 00:26:40,781 I'm not sure I'm in love with you either, 574 00:26:40,849 --> 00:26:45,352 but maybe we'll end up in love with each other. 575 00:26:45,421 --> 00:26:47,521 And if, you know, we both understand what's going on, 576 00:26:47,589 --> 00:26:50,473 then nobody gets hurt, right? 577 00:26:50,543 --> 00:26:52,141 No. 578 00:26:53,479 --> 00:26:55,907 Look, I'm just beginning to understand 579 00:26:55,931 --> 00:26:58,998 what's going on with me, 580 00:26:59,067 --> 00:27:03,770 and I want to understand me 581 00:27:03,839 --> 00:27:08,174 before I get involved with you or anyone else. 582 00:27:16,886 --> 00:27:19,414 Dinner will be ready soon. 583 00:27:19,438 --> 00:27:20,438 Well? 584 00:27:20,506 --> 00:27:25,242 Harry is, uh, interesting... 585 00:27:25,311 --> 00:27:27,755 and your mother and I aren't saying 586 00:27:27,779 --> 00:27:29,546 that you can't date him, 587 00:27:29,615 --> 00:27:32,532 but we're also not saying that you can date him. 588 00:27:32,618 --> 00:27:34,935 And all this double talk means? 589 00:27:36,288 --> 00:27:37,632 Well, your mother and I both feel 590 00:27:37,656 --> 00:27:40,023 that we'd like to get to know Harry a little more 591 00:27:40,092 --> 00:27:44,094 before you two officially started going out, 592 00:27:44,163 --> 00:27:46,630 and it would be nice if he was out of detention, too. 593 00:27:46,699 --> 00:27:47,699 Translation? 594 00:27:47,767 --> 00:27:49,515 It means you and Harry 595 00:27:49,584 --> 00:27:51,218 can hang out around the house. 596 00:27:51,286 --> 00:27:54,020 Give us all a chance to get to know each other a little more, 597 00:27:54,089 --> 00:27:55,756 and if all goes well, 598 00:27:55,824 --> 00:27:58,725 we... I... 599 00:27:58,794 --> 00:28:03,696 I might not be opposed to the two of you... 600 00:28:03,766 --> 00:28:05,365 dating. 601 00:28:05,451 --> 00:28:07,768 Okay, I can live with that. 602 00:28:07,853 --> 00:28:11,571 Did you know Harry is living in a county facility? 603 00:28:11,657 --> 00:28:13,289 Yeah, I know. 604 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:14,469 Harry told me he's been bounced 605 00:28:14,493 --> 00:28:16,471 from one foster home to another foster home. 606 00:28:16,495 --> 00:28:18,206 He's waiting to get another family. 607 00:28:18,230 --> 00:28:20,663 Yeah, but it's not Harry's fault. 608 00:28:20,733 --> 00:28:23,100 They just keep putting him with lousy families. 609 00:28:23,169 --> 00:28:24,300 Hmm. 610 00:28:24,370 --> 00:28:26,069 But Harry always makes the best 611 00:28:26,137 --> 00:28:27,537 out of a bad situation. 612 00:28:27,606 --> 00:28:29,451 That's one of the things I like about him. 613 00:28:29,475 --> 00:28:32,976 Yeah, it just seems a shame that there isn't a couple out there, 614 00:28:33,044 --> 00:28:36,646 or just a person, who could make a difference 615 00:28:36,715 --> 00:28:39,349 and give him a foster home 616 00:28:39,417 --> 00:28:42,853 or just adopt him and give him a permanent home. 617 00:28:42,922 --> 00:28:45,171 Wait, you're not going to adopt Harry 618 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,135 just so I can't date him, are you? 619 00:28:47,159 --> 00:28:48,842 Hmm... 620 00:28:48,910 --> 00:28:51,979 No, no, but maybe I can find someone else who can. 621 00:28:52,064 --> 00:28:54,447 Just as long as it's not a blood relative, great. 622 00:28:54,533 --> 00:28:56,716 You really like him, don't you? I do. 623 00:29:00,606 --> 00:29:03,166 What are you doing? 624 00:29:03,843 --> 00:29:06,442 Why do you love me? 625 00:29:06,512 --> 00:29:09,445 You don't look to me to make you happy. 626 00:29:09,515 --> 00:29:12,966 You take responsibility for your own happiness. 627 00:29:13,052 --> 00:29:15,132 You know who you are and what you believe. 628 00:29:16,622 --> 00:29:18,972 It's sexy, very attractive. 629 00:29:19,058 --> 00:29:22,609 And I could sense from the very beginning 630 00:29:22,695 --> 00:29:25,045 you were never looking for anyone to define you, 631 00:29:25,113 --> 00:29:27,681 tell you who you should be and what you should do. 632 00:29:27,749 --> 00:29:29,594 I guess I fell in love with the fact 633 00:29:29,618 --> 00:29:32,285 that you loved yourself so much, if you know what I mean. 634 00:29:32,371 --> 00:29:34,888 Yeah, I think I do know what you mean. 635 00:29:34,974 --> 00:29:37,558 And I love that even though I have more than enough money 636 00:29:37,626 --> 00:29:39,938 and you could just stay at home and raise our children, 637 00:29:39,962 --> 00:29:42,563 you want to work, you want to give something to the world 638 00:29:42,631 --> 00:29:44,531 as well as me and our family. 639 00:29:44,617 --> 00:29:45,798 Thanks. 640 00:29:46,919 --> 00:29:49,386 Did you hear? 641 00:29:49,454 --> 00:29:51,671 Dad asked me to give the sermon on Sunday. 642 00:29:51,757 --> 00:29:53,067 That's great; do you know 643 00:29:53,091 --> 00:29:54,636 what you're going to talk about for your sermon? 644 00:29:54,660 --> 00:29:57,261 Yeah, I finally do know what I'm gonna talk about, 645 00:29:57,329 --> 00:29:58,845 and that's the good news. 646 00:29:58,931 --> 00:30:00,075 Is there bad news? 647 00:30:00,099 --> 00:30:02,632 I need the apartment to write it down 648 00:30:02,701 --> 00:30:04,067 before I lose my train of thought. 649 00:30:04,136 --> 00:30:05,185 See you. 650 00:30:05,271 --> 00:30:07,403 I don't want to kick you out. 651 00:30:07,473 --> 00:30:08,805 You aren't; I'm leaving. 652 00:30:08,874 --> 00:30:11,434 I'll go grab a burger at the pool hall. 653 00:30:12,761 --> 00:30:14,177 I love you. 654 00:30:26,074 --> 00:30:27,190 Hello. 655 00:30:27,259 --> 00:30:28,669 Hey, Ruthie, I'm waiting for my friend 656 00:30:28,693 --> 00:30:30,860 to come and pick up his car and drop me off. 657 00:30:30,930 --> 00:30:33,079 I'm glad you called. 658 00:30:33,165 --> 00:30:34,448 Do you have any plans on Sunday? 659 00:30:34,533 --> 00:30:35,465 No. 660 00:30:35,534 --> 00:30:36,812 You want to come to church with me? 661 00:30:36,836 --> 00:30:38,756 I'd love to go to church with you. 662 00:30:45,044 --> 00:30:46,459 Oh, you're just in time. 663 00:30:46,529 --> 00:30:48,729 We're having stuffed pork chops, your favorite. 664 00:30:51,717 --> 00:30:54,867 Aren't you guys going to ask me about therapy with Dr. Gibson? 665 00:30:54,936 --> 00:30:57,137 I've been there all day, on and off. 666 00:30:57,223 --> 00:30:59,656 We've been talking, and your mother and I agree 667 00:30:59,725 --> 00:31:03,793 that maybe we need to... change the way we respond 668 00:31:03,862 --> 00:31:06,230 to all this change in your life. 669 00:31:06,298 --> 00:31:08,599 Maybe then you won't feel it's necessary 670 00:31:08,667 --> 00:31:12,135 to not tell us what's going on in your life 671 00:31:12,204 --> 00:31:14,771 and who you're dating. 672 00:31:17,426 --> 00:31:19,492 I'm sorry about lying about Georgia. 673 00:31:19,561 --> 00:31:20,927 I did break up with her, though. 674 00:31:20,995 --> 00:31:22,929 It was, like, an hour ago. 675 00:31:24,917 --> 00:31:28,051 We talked and decided that maybe it's best 676 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,853 if we both get to know ourselves a bit more 677 00:31:30,923 --> 00:31:32,701 before continuing our relationship. 678 00:31:32,725 --> 00:31:34,407 So Dr. Gibson helped? 679 00:31:34,493 --> 00:31:37,577 With things I didn't even know I needed help with. 680 00:31:37,663 --> 00:31:41,848 I'm not ready to talk about anything yet, 681 00:31:41,934 --> 00:31:45,285 but I am sorry for disappointing you both, 682 00:31:45,353 --> 00:31:48,772 and I'm sorry for disappointing myself. 683 00:31:48,841 --> 00:31:51,074 Oh, you didn't disappoint anyone, Simon. 684 00:31:51,143 --> 00:31:53,188 We love you; we just want you to be happy. 685 00:31:53,212 --> 00:31:56,462 Well, I'm gonna cram a few more appointments in with Dr. Gibson, 686 00:31:56,531 --> 00:32:00,366 and I have a referral for a therapist at my college, 687 00:32:00,435 --> 00:32:02,475 that is if I'm able to go back to school. 688 00:32:02,504 --> 00:32:05,605 You know, I, I can't really afford it without your help. 689 00:32:05,691 --> 00:32:08,051 When you're in the trenches fighting for your son's life, 690 00:32:08,109 --> 00:32:11,845 you grab whatever weapon you have handy. 691 00:32:11,931 --> 00:32:14,614 What, like threatening to not pay tuition? 692 00:32:14,700 --> 00:32:15,982 I already wrote the check. 693 00:32:17,236 --> 00:32:20,136 Uh, you know, less your scholarship. 694 00:32:20,205 --> 00:32:23,340 And-And, hey, if you go to all your classes this year, 695 00:32:23,408 --> 00:32:25,287 maybe you can get a full scholarship. 696 00:32:25,311 --> 00:32:26,777 Just so we're clear, 697 00:32:26,845 --> 00:32:30,413 I'm not promising to never have sex until I'm married. 698 00:32:30,482 --> 00:32:32,632 But I do promise 699 00:32:32,718 --> 00:32:35,602 that if and when I do decide to have sex again, 700 00:32:35,671 --> 00:32:37,170 I'm gonna use better judgment, 701 00:32:37,239 --> 00:32:39,922 and I-I'll be more emotionally ready. 702 00:32:39,992 --> 00:32:42,575 I'm not happy, but it's a step in the right direction. 703 00:32:42,661 --> 00:32:46,546 We'll just take a wait-and-see policy with everything, I guess. 704 00:32:48,650 --> 00:32:50,400 Simon? 705 00:32:51,487 --> 00:32:54,521 You're our son, and... 706 00:32:54,590 --> 00:32:57,757 we will always love you, no matter what. 707 00:32:57,826 --> 00:32:59,242 Always. 708 00:32:59,311 --> 00:33:01,294 Thanks. 709 00:33:05,184 --> 00:33:06,894 Oh. 710 00:33:06,918 --> 00:33:08,251 Things are getting better. 711 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,398 They're not great, but they're getting better. 712 00:33:10,422 --> 00:33:12,355 Mm-hmm. 713 00:33:24,036 --> 00:33:25,735 Hi. 714 00:33:25,803 --> 00:33:27,286 We were just talking. 715 00:33:27,373 --> 00:33:29,373 Well, in-in the future, perhaps, 716 00:33:29,441 --> 00:33:32,876 you could do your talking in one of the many common rooms 717 00:33:32,944 --> 00:33:34,184 available in the house. 718 00:33:34,246 --> 00:33:36,629 Might I suggest the living room? 719 00:33:36,715 --> 00:33:38,331 Okay. 720 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,467 I'll wait for you outside. 721 00:33:41,536 --> 00:33:43,469 See you in church. 722 00:33:46,809 --> 00:33:48,641 Georgia's coming to our church today. 723 00:33:48,711 --> 00:33:50,210 She wants to hear Lucy's sermon. 724 00:33:50,295 --> 00:33:51,078 What's going on? 725 00:33:51,163 --> 00:33:52,395 We were just were talking 726 00:33:52,464 --> 00:33:53,896 about the possibility of, um, 727 00:33:53,965 --> 00:33:57,266 having a relationship without being so physical. 728 00:33:57,336 --> 00:33:59,002 Oh. 729 00:33:59,071 --> 00:34:00,981 See, we never really got a chance 730 00:34:01,005 --> 00:34:03,606 to get to know each other, and... and we-we thought, 731 00:34:03,675 --> 00:34:05,386 what the heck, let's give it a shot. 732 00:34:05,410 --> 00:34:07,122 You know, I missed her, she missed me. 733 00:34:07,146 --> 00:34:08,228 You missed her? 734 00:34:08,296 --> 00:34:10,125 You-you just saw her two days ago. 735 00:34:10,149 --> 00:34:13,500 I really don't know if I love her, 736 00:34:13,569 --> 00:34:17,770 and, I mean, we really don't have anything in common, 737 00:34:17,839 --> 00:34:20,307 but... what can I say? 738 00:34:20,375 --> 00:34:21,641 She makes me laugh. 739 00:34:38,026 --> 00:34:39,976 Can I come in? 740 00:34:40,045 --> 00:34:42,562 I guess you can. 741 00:34:46,468 --> 00:34:47,967 I'm not sure I like you, 742 00:34:48,036 --> 00:34:51,837 or that I want you dating Ruthie, but I guess 743 00:34:51,906 --> 00:34:55,809 if Reverend and Mrs. Camden can give you a chance, I can, too. 744 00:34:55,894 --> 00:34:57,854 I guess I can give you a chance, too. 745 00:35:03,619 --> 00:35:05,785 Harry. 746 00:35:05,871 --> 00:35:07,048 Reverend Camden. 747 00:35:07,072 --> 00:35:09,122 Harry, this is my mom. 748 00:35:09,208 --> 00:35:10,423 Oh, wow. 749 00:35:10,492 --> 00:35:12,787 I see where Ruthie gets her good looks from. Nice. 750 00:35:12,811 --> 00:35:15,006 I just came down for the boys' shirts, 751 00:35:15,030 --> 00:35:16,908 and, uh, now that I have them, 752 00:35:16,932 --> 00:35:18,309 I'm gonna be heading upstairs. 753 00:35:19,868 --> 00:35:22,313 Um, would you like to come by the house 754 00:35:22,337 --> 00:35:23,832 after church for lunch? 755 00:35:23,856 --> 00:35:25,288 Thanks. I'd love to. 756 00:35:27,825 --> 00:35:29,770 Well, I want to check on Lucy, 757 00:35:29,794 --> 00:35:31,594 so I'll just be off. 758 00:35:31,662 --> 00:35:34,080 Can Harry drive me to church? 759 00:35:35,184 --> 00:35:37,968 No. 760 00:35:42,374 --> 00:35:45,007 I'll drive you both to church. 761 00:35:45,077 --> 00:35:47,157 Great, but we're sitting in the back seat. 762 00:35:51,550 --> 00:35:52,993 You really like this guy? 763 00:35:53,017 --> 00:35:54,767 Yeah, I do, 764 00:35:54,853 --> 00:35:56,285 and just for the record, 765 00:35:56,355 --> 00:35:58,275 you don't have to take care of me. 766 00:35:58,323 --> 00:36:00,423 I'm almost 15, so you don't have to do 767 00:36:00,492 --> 00:36:02,492 the whole big brother protection stuff. 768 00:36:04,345 --> 00:36:06,662 But when you do act like my big brother, 769 00:36:06,732 --> 00:36:09,316 I do kind of like it, and I like you. 770 00:36:09,384 --> 00:36:10,733 I'm glad you're here. 771 00:36:10,802 --> 00:36:12,768 Thanks. 772 00:36:40,098 --> 00:36:41,959 I just wanted to make sure you're okay. 773 00:36:41,983 --> 00:36:43,099 It's a big day. 774 00:36:43,168 --> 00:36:45,201 What do you think? 775 00:36:45,270 --> 00:36:47,220 I think 776 00:36:47,288 --> 00:36:50,090 I haven't been more proud to be your father 777 00:36:50,158 --> 00:36:53,042 since the day I first held you in the hospital. 778 00:36:53,111 --> 00:36:54,477 Dad, don't make me cry. 779 00:36:54,545 --> 00:36:56,945 I don't want to look like a raccoon when I give my sermon. 780 00:37:02,487 --> 00:37:04,553 I can't believe 781 00:37:04,623 --> 00:37:06,200 I'm actually the associate pastor. 782 00:37:06,224 --> 00:37:08,224 This is my dream. 783 00:37:08,292 --> 00:37:09,875 You made my dreams come true. 784 00:37:09,962 --> 00:37:13,163 Nah, you've made your dreams come true. 785 00:37:13,231 --> 00:37:15,565 You did it, 786 00:37:15,633 --> 00:37:17,717 and like I said, I couldn't be more proud. 787 00:37:24,225 --> 00:37:26,409 When my father asked me if I'd be willing 788 00:37:26,478 --> 00:37:29,111 to start a class here at church for all our teens 789 00:37:29,180 --> 00:37:31,125 who want a safe place to discuss sex, 790 00:37:31,149 --> 00:37:34,917 I told him I'd do it, but on two conditions. 791 00:37:34,986 --> 00:37:37,420 The class had to have more to offer teens 792 00:37:37,489 --> 00:37:41,558 than just an adult, an associate pastor, well, me, 793 00:37:41,626 --> 00:37:45,662 telling them not to have sex until marriage, and for now, 794 00:37:45,731 --> 00:37:47,497 I just wanted to offer the class 795 00:37:47,566 --> 00:37:49,599 to all the young girls in the church. 796 00:37:49,668 --> 00:37:50,867 But don't worry, guys. 797 00:37:50,935 --> 00:37:52,152 I'm coming after you, too. 798 00:37:56,241 --> 00:37:58,157 So, what do I want to tell, 799 00:37:58,226 --> 00:38:01,327 or better yet, what do I have to offer teen girls 800 00:38:01,395 --> 00:38:03,730 who are being faced with a very adult choice 801 00:38:03,798 --> 00:38:06,766 of should I or shouldn't I have sex? 802 00:38:06,835 --> 00:38:08,267 And I started thinking 803 00:38:08,336 --> 00:38:10,469 about the woman from the Song of Solomon, 804 00:38:10,538 --> 00:38:13,639 who like many other women in the Bible is unnamed. 805 00:38:13,708 --> 00:38:16,192 She is called only Shulamite Woman, 806 00:38:16,261 --> 00:38:18,962 which basically tells us about her region of origin. 807 00:38:19,031 --> 00:38:21,364 We don't know her name, but we do know 808 00:38:21,433 --> 00:38:23,233 that she knows who she is, 809 00:38:23,301 --> 00:38:25,701 and that she's not ashamed of who she is. 810 00:38:25,770 --> 00:38:28,738 The Shulamite Woman not only knows who she is, 811 00:38:28,806 --> 00:38:30,640 she knows what she wants, 812 00:38:30,708 --> 00:38:32,628 and she knows what her passion is, 813 00:38:32,677 --> 00:38:34,761 and she goes after it. 814 00:38:34,846 --> 00:38:36,145 She loves who she is, 815 00:38:36,214 --> 00:38:38,548 and she doesn't care what anybody thinks of her, 816 00:38:38,616 --> 00:38:41,150 because she is strong within herself. 817 00:38:41,219 --> 00:38:43,886 She has self-love and self-esteem. 818 00:38:43,955 --> 00:38:47,289 She's in love with a man, and she wants that man, 819 00:38:47,359 --> 00:38:49,124 but she knows and loves 820 00:38:49,193 --> 00:38:52,762 who she is outside of her love for that man. 821 00:38:52,831 --> 00:38:55,114 That's such an important point. 822 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,449 So many of us live our lives believing 823 00:38:57,518 --> 00:39:01,487 that life will be better once we get a husband 824 00:39:01,573 --> 00:39:04,858 or a wife, or once we make money, 825 00:39:04,943 --> 00:39:07,760 or drive a fancy car, or buy a house. 826 00:39:07,829 --> 00:39:10,129 And it's no different in high school. 827 00:39:10,197 --> 00:39:11,798 A lot of girls think, 828 00:39:11,866 --> 00:39:15,267 everything will be better once that cute boy asks them out, 829 00:39:15,336 --> 00:39:17,603 or they get invited to the cool party, 830 00:39:17,672 --> 00:39:20,005 or they get elected homecoming queen, 831 00:39:20,074 --> 00:39:23,442 or... once they have sex. 832 00:39:24,930 --> 00:39:27,280 So many of us make loving ourselves dependent 833 00:39:27,348 --> 00:39:29,515 upon something outside of ourselves. 834 00:39:29,601 --> 00:39:32,318 So many of us make being complete 835 00:39:32,404 --> 00:39:34,820 dependent upon being with someone else, 836 00:39:34,890 --> 00:39:39,225 and being fulfilled dependent upon accomplishment. 837 00:39:39,294 --> 00:39:42,728 But it's not someone else's job to make us happy. 838 00:39:42,797 --> 00:39:45,098 It's your job to make yourself happy 839 00:39:45,166 --> 00:39:47,700 and to know who you are. 840 00:39:47,769 --> 00:39:51,704 And if you don't know yourself, or love yourself, 841 00:39:51,773 --> 00:39:54,873 how can you expect someone else to? 842 00:39:56,944 --> 00:40:00,062 God wants us to know and love ourselves. 843 00:40:00,131 --> 00:40:04,166 He also wants us to know our purpose, our passion. 844 00:40:04,235 --> 00:40:05,869 Those two things are connected, 845 00:40:05,937 --> 00:40:08,237 and you cannot find your passion 846 00:40:08,306 --> 00:40:11,708 if you don't know who you are. 847 00:40:11,776 --> 00:40:14,610 Your passion is a part of who you are already, 848 00:40:14,679 --> 00:40:18,364 but to know it, you must know yourself. 849 00:40:18,433 --> 00:40:21,334 Passion is not sex and romance. 850 00:40:21,403 --> 00:40:26,005 Passion is what you pour into creating a life for yourself 851 00:40:26,074 --> 00:40:29,976 that has meaning and purpose. 852 00:40:30,044 --> 00:40:33,913 So I ask you, especially all you girls out there, 853 00:40:33,982 --> 00:40:38,118 what have you dreamt about doing? 854 00:40:38,186 --> 00:40:42,021 What is that thing that you've always wanted to do? 855 00:40:44,192 --> 00:40:46,892 I hate to say it, but as a young woman, 856 00:40:46,961 --> 00:40:48,881 it's very easy to get sidetracked 857 00:40:48,930 --> 00:40:51,114 from discovering your passion. 858 00:40:51,182 --> 00:40:53,583 There are actually more things to sidetrack you, 859 00:40:53,651 --> 00:40:56,586 and not much to inspire you. 860 00:40:56,654 --> 00:40:59,556 Sex can sidetrack you. 861 00:40:59,624 --> 00:41:04,561 A relationship with the wrong boy can sidetrack you. 862 00:41:04,629 --> 00:41:07,430 An unexpected pregnancy can sidetrack you. 863 00:41:07,499 --> 00:41:10,066 But remember the Shulamite Woman. 864 00:41:10,134 --> 00:41:12,635 Remember what she teaches us. 865 00:41:12,704 --> 00:41:14,631 We cannot share our passion with others 866 00:41:14,655 --> 00:41:17,056 until we find it within ourselves. 867 00:41:17,125 --> 00:41:19,225 Whatever your passion is, 868 00:41:19,293 --> 00:41:22,361 now is the time to experience it. 869 00:41:22,430 --> 00:41:24,864 Whatever your purpose is, 870 00:41:24,933 --> 00:41:28,101 now is the time to discover it. 871 00:41:28,169 --> 00:41:32,138 Whatever you need, now is the time to pursue it. 872 00:41:32,207 --> 00:41:34,018 Now is the time to accomplish it. 873 00:41:34,042 --> 00:41:35,441 Now, right now. 874 00:41:35,509 --> 00:41:38,377 Your passion is that thing you love. 875 00:41:38,446 --> 00:41:41,998 That thing you would give anything to do, to be. 876 00:41:42,067 --> 00:41:44,767 What you are waiting for is already inside of you. 877 00:41:44,836 --> 00:41:46,769 God has already equipped us 878 00:41:46,838 --> 00:41:50,974 with everything we need to live full and rich lives. 879 00:41:51,042 --> 00:41:54,810 It is our responsibility to make that life happen, 880 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,712 to make our dreams happen, 881 00:41:56,781 --> 00:42:00,750 to find our passion and pursue it.